Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions - Step Four
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Of interest is that there is no reference in the book Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions, written in 1952, to the
“three column inventory” described on page 65 of the “Big
Book,” which was written in 1939. The Fourth Step, as written in the “Twelve and Twelve,”
consists of an Assets and Liabilities Checklist, along with some
questions. In fact, with the exception of being asked to answer these questions, we
are not instructed to write anything at all in the Fourth Step.
The
reason there is no mention of a three or four column inventory in
the “Twelve and Twelve” is because the book is a reflection of
what was actually being done at the time. In 1952, A.A. sponsors conducted a verbal Fourth Step or
used an Assets and Liabilities Checklist.
“.
. . Nearly every serious emotional problem can be seen as a case
of misdirected instinct. When that happens, our great natural ASSETS, the instincts,
have turned into physical and mental LIABILITIES.
“Step Four is our vigorous and painstaking effort to discover what these
LIABILITIES in each of us have been, and are.”
(Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 42)
On pages 43-46, we find a detailed list of the liabilities we need to
address. And then on page 46, we find another reference to the Assets and Liabilities
Checklist.
“At
this stage of the inventory proceedings, our sponsors come to our
rescue. They can do this, for they are the carriers of A.A.’s tested experience with
Step Four. They comfort the melancholy one by first showing him that his case is
not strange or different, that his character defects are probably
not more numerous or worse than those of anyone else in A.A.
This the sponsor promptly proves by talking freely and
easily, and without exhibitionism, about his own defects, past and
present. This calm, yet realistic, STOCK-TAKING is immensely reassuring.
The sponsor probably points out that the newcomer has some ASSETS
which can be noted along with his LIABILITIES. This
tends to clear away morbidity and encourage balance.
As soon as he begins to be more objective, the newcomer can
fearlessly, rather than fearfully, look at his own defects.”
(Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 46)
On page 48, the author states that there are several lists in use. Then he describes a checklist based on the Seven Deadly Sins.
“Now let’s ponder the need for a list of the more
glaring personality defects all of us have in varying degrees. . .
“To avoid falling into confusion over the names these
defects should be called, let’s take a universally recognized
list of major human failings–the Seven Deadly Sins of PRIDE,
GREED,
LUST, ANGER, GLUTTONY, ENVY
and SLOTH. . . .(Seven
liabilities)
“All of these
failings generate FEAR, a soul-sickness in its own
right.”(Eighth liability)
“Since Step Four is but the beginning of a lifetime
practice, it can be suggested that he first have a look at those
personal flaws which are acutely troublesome and fairly obvious. Using his best judgment of what has been right (ASSETS)
and what has been wrong (LIABILITIES),
he might make a ROUGH
SURVEY
(CHECKLIST) of his conduct . . . ”
(Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions, pp. 48-49, 50)
Adding FEAR to the Seven Deadly Sins results in an
eight-item liability checklist.
This is the same number used by Dr. Bob S., A.A.’s Akron
Ohio co-founder.
When we compare
these liabilities to those used in the Back to Basics Beginners’
Meetings, we find the lists are, for all intent and purposes,
identical.
4th Step Liabilities List
Twelve
and Twelve
Back to Basics
Pride - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
-False Pride
Greed - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Dishonesty
Lust - - - - - - - - - -
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - Jealousy
Anger - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Resentment
Gluttony- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Selfishness
Envy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Envy
Sloth - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Laziness
Fear - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Fear
On pages 50-53, we find a detailed list of questions we can
ask ourselves about this checklist. Then on page 54, the author suggests we write down these
questions along with our answers.
“Therefore, thoroughness ought to be the watchword when
taking inventory. In
this connection, it is wise to write out our questions and
answers. It will be
an aid to clear thinking and honest appraisal.”
(Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 54)
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